Many Holocaust survivors thrived  – but have their children inherited their trauma?

Recent studies suggest a psychological mystery: some children of Holocaust survivors seem to suffer from "second-generation trauma"

Suzanna Stross, who spent three years during the Holocaust inside Theresienstadt concentration camp, pictured with her son, Thomas
Suzanna Stross, who spent three years during the Holocaust inside Theresienstadt concentration camp, pictured with her son, Thomas Credit:  Rii Schroer

In a week filled with harrowing remembrances, it was an unexpectedly uplifting moment.

At the end of BBC drama The Windermere Children - commissioned to mark Holocaust Memorial Day and telling the story of 305 child Holocaust survivors who arrived in England, in 1945, to begin their rehabilitation in the Lake Disctrict - the actors who played them were replaced, on screen, by their real-life counterparts. Everything these traumatised young people had gone on to achieve in life, from having families to building successful careers, flashed on screen.

One boy, “Ben”, turned out to be British Olympian Sir Ben Helfgott, who captained the British weight-lifting team in 1956 and 1960, and was knighted in 2018. Schmuel Laskiet, we learned, had set up a large menswear business in Manchester, while Ike Alterman thrived in the jewellery market.

It was a powerful reminder that, once they had escaped the clutches of the Nazis, many of the Jews who survived the Holocaust thrived in civilian life.

But theirs is only one side of the story, and psychologists are now looking at the impact on the next generation. Although some have reached great heights, many children of Holocaust survivors have reported a “second-generation trauma” that they struggled to discuss with their parents.

Kathy Brodbeck was born six years after the end of the Second World War, but she is convinced that the Holocaust still played a significant part in her upbringing.

Actors from the BBC's 'The Windermere Children' pictured with the real-life refugees they depicted
Actors from the BBC's 'The Windermere Children' pictured with the real-life refugees they depicted Credit: Helen Sloan

She spent her twenties as an “anxious, troubled person” who received treatment for anorexia, but she never dared to broach the topic with her mother, Suzanna, who had spent three years in Theresienstadt concentration camp, Czechoslovakia, and lost her family to the Nazis.

“I didn’t talk to her about issues that were going on in my life,” the 69-year-old teacher remembers of her childhood in north London. “When you have parents who have experienced such hardship it’s impossible to burden them with your own stuff. I didn’t want to project my own problems.”

Her predicament chimes with a growing body of research indicating that trauma from the Holocaust, or other major historical events, can echo down the generations.

Holocaust survivors themselves tend to show a startling resilience that has driven many to success: a famous US study conducted by Dr William Helmreich in 1992 interviewed hundreds and found them to be more professionally successful and happy, on average, than other American Jews of a similar age.

But their offspring often tell a different story: a review last year by the European Journal of Psychotraumatology looked at 18 years worth of medical data and found that children of Holocaust survivors show a “heightened vulnerability for stress”.

For decades, it was considered a social phenomenon - those who have come through great suffering are less likely to talk to their children about their own problems, went one explanation - but recent research has found that it might be a biological one too: nature, rather than nurture.

Kathy Brodbeck, pictured at her home in north London, struggled as a young woman to discuss her anorexia with her mother
Kathy Brodbeck, pictured at her home in north London, struggled as a young woman to discuss her anorexia with her mother Credit:  Rii Schroer

It is not down to genetics, scientists say, but the more obscure field of “epigenetics”, in which tiny chemical tags are added to our genes in response to environmental changes, without changing our DNA code itself.

These tags tell our body to behave in a certain way: a starving person might receive tags telling their body to store more fat, for example. We used to think these tags were washed away during the fertilisation process, but scientists are increasingly coming round to the view that some tags can pass from parent to child.

In a 2013 study, researchers blew the scent of cherry blossom towards mice, zapping their feet with electricity at the same time, so they came to associate the scent with pain. The mice then had offspring, who also became jumpy and nervous whenever they smelt cherry blossom, despite never having received electric shocks.

Academics think a similar process might be at play in humans who have experienced great trauma. A 2015 study in New York found that children of 32 Holocaust survivors were more likely to suffer from stress disorders than those from Jewish families who hadn’t been directly impacted by the Nazis - a result that “could only be attributed to Holocaust exposure in the parents”, according to the author, Dr Rachel Yehuda.  

The liberation of Auschwitz, 1945. Studies have found that children of Holocaust survivors show a “heightened vulnerability for stress”.
The liberation of Auschwitz, 1945. Studies have found that children of Holocaust survivors show a “heightened vulnerability for stress”. Credit:  Roger-Viollet / Rex Features/ Rex Features

A much larger study, in 2018, found that sons of soldiers who had been imprisoned in squalid conditions during the American Civil War were more likely to die young than the sons of soldiers who had not been imprisoned - a finding that could only be explained by genetic inheritance, researchers said, once other factors such as wealth and upbringing had been taken into consideration.

“This is a growing field that truly links the social sciences and hard biological sciences,” says Dr Moshe Szyf of McGill University Medical School in Canada, and a world-respected authority on epigenetics.

But the science is controversial. Marcus Pembrey, professor of paediatric genetics at University College London, says that much of the evidence relies on animal studies, and in humans it has been difficult to get a clear answer. Dr Yehuda admits that her own study was blown out of proportion.

Kathy Brodbeck is certain that her own upbringing was affected by her mother’s Holocaust experience, but says it is “hard to know” whether it was a case of nature or nurture.

Suzanna was plucked from her home in Prague at 17, and taken by the Nazis in cattle trucks to Theresienstadt, along with her mother and grandmother. Her grandmother died shortly after arrival. Notorious SS officer Adolf Eichmann personally selected Suzanna’s mother to be taken to the gas chambers at Auschwitz.

Kathy pictured as a young girl with her mother, Suzanna
Kathy pictured as a young girl with her mother, Suzanna

Suzanna, who survived because she was young and could make herself useful in the labour camp, didn’t realise it was the last time she would see her family, and always remembered the pain in her shoulder from where her mother embraced her tightly before being forced away.

After liberation, Suzanna married and moved to London with her husband, in 1948. “She loved England and the Royal Family. She always felt more at home here than in [Czechoslovakia],” remembers Kathy.

A glamorous beauty, her mother had two children and found a job in fashion working for the well-known textile designer Zika Ascher. She “embraced life”, becoming something of a Bohemian who loved the theatre, opera, and cinema. “As I grew up I remember everybody admiring my mother’s beauty. She was very chic and sociable,” adds Kathy.

Part of her success came from a refusal to dwell on her horrific youth. “She didn’t feel, ‘Oh woe is me, I’ve had this terrible experience’.” In fact, she barely discussed her memories until agreeing to take part in interviews for the Shoah Foundation - a project founded by Steven Spielberg, a year after his 1993 Oscar-winning film, Schindler’s List, to collate and preserve the testimonies of Holocaust survivors.

Kathy is “so different”. She knew, as a young woman, that she wouldn’t find a receptive audience in her mother to discuss her anorexia. When she became dangerously thin, Suzanna suggested that she was “punishing” her for how emaciated she had been in the concentration camp. “I don’t think she ever understood me,” says her daughter. Suzanna died aged 91.

Pearl Gabel, from Lambertville, New Jersey, is sure that she inherited epigenetic trauma from her grandmother, Ida, who lost her parents and eight siblings in the Holocaust. In the Thirties, Ida had travelled from her native Ukraine to Belgium to make money for her family, and was there when the Nazis invaded in 1940.

Pearl Gabel as a baby pictured with her mother and grandmother
Pearl Gabel as a baby pictured with her mother and grandmother Credit: Pearl Gabel

She only survived by immediately purchasing a wooden cross and pretending, for the duration of the war, to be Catholic.

Pearl, who is in her thirties and works in communications, suffers with depression and anxiety. A few years ago, her therapist suggested that her psychological problems might stem from her grandmother’s wartime experience, and encouraged her to join a support group for second and third-generation survivors.

“There was such a weight from [my grandmother’s] side of the family, like a darkness,” says Pearl - a trait that contrasts sharply with the happy-go-lucky attitude of her father’s family, she says, who moved to the United States before the Holocaust. “I’ve always felt like I was on the edge of doom, constantly on the precipice. I think we carry the memories in our bones.”

'The Windermere Children' is available on BBC iPlayer

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